The charisma of Solitude

"Solitude, though it may be silent as light, is like light, the mightiest of agencies; for solitude is essential. All come into this world alone; all leave it alone. "

Though social enough, i prefer being alone as my profile says. And to mention it ,its not about any girl or love or sorrow that makes me like that ,but here I shall discuss the magic of being alone ; or with one person.

Whenever I am with friends , a 'gang', in other words ; we share jokes, speak slangs, make fun of each other and almost die out laughing. It acts as a great stress buster. They make you forget your wildest of traumas in just a few minutes. Depression definitely makes its way out of mind, but only for a while. Its like a cigarette .The moment you leave it ,that relaxation disappears. Serious issues often vanished in fumes in these moments ,but not in reality ,so they had to return to me, once those nice moments ceased.

But with one trustworthy person, I can discuss my woes ,seek opinions, it gives me all the warmth I need, and its not another cigarette ,the advice persists and beneficial many a times. Quite often the discussions alone have steered to solutions of continuous troubles persisting in life ,and many a time as productive ones, too resourceful a tool for personal development in the years to follow. The laughter also shared in these moments is calm, but mind boosting .

Another thing done alone is reading those fantastic novels ,an ultimate platform for me into writing and enjoying the thrills accompanying it. Pondering over certain topics going wrong in life ,can be often magical and lead to pretty wise decisions .And then comes writing alone and alone.

Also Solitude brings me a fantastic chance to rejuvenate myself, exhilarate a new life and get my focus back. It offers me the solution to everything that I am stuck with, also allow me just to calm down a bit after a frantic day and gives me the chance to spend time with mysel.

But that doesn't mean I don't like being parts of gangs ,I love to be ,but with the exception of a few times ,when the magic lies ahead in discovering some things, awaited in life smoothly and calmly.